I’m happy. Almost as happy as I have ever been in life. It’s not like getting a job at Marvel Comics. It’s not marrying Barb and having our kids. It’s not the Black Lightning TV series. But it is almost up there. When I revealed this to an online friend of mine, her response was:
“Are you crazy, girl?”
I know I live in a country and a time when my trans community is under vile attack. I know there are people close to me who are not completely on board with my transition. There are more than a few obstacles in my path. On the other hand…
I look in the mirror every day and see I’m becoming the person I am and who I want to be. I’m getting tremendous support from my therapist and my doctors. I’m blessed with local allies like OutSupport Medina and friends. I’m especially thankful for the overwhelming love and respect I received from the comics and other online communities. I am lucky to have all of the above and much more.
I am writing things that inspire me and speak to my life and the world around me. I have the great privilege of being there for my online pals who ask great questions and who tell me about their lives and who just want to cry on my shoulders or get a virtual hug when they need it. That I can still be a positive in so many lives after all the years make my soul glad.
As do these things that made me happy last month.
March 1: Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non binary People and Their Families. Interviews by Peggy Gillespie. Inspirational personal stories. Powerful messages. A beacon to a better future.
March 2: Godzilla’s Monsterpiece Theatre by Tom Scioli. Literary heroes unite to battle the King of the Monsters. The Great Gatsby. Jules Verne. The Time Machinst and more. It’s insane fun with the trade coming out in July.
March 3: Pop Culture Jeopardy was a thoroughly enjoyable show. I thought the competition was exciting and fierce. Colin Jost was amazing at its host. I hope we get a second season.
March 4: Hornsby & Halo by Peter J. Tomasi and Peter Snejbjerg. Unwitting children of Heaven and Hell sent to live on Earth to preserve the peace. Intriguing characters and setting. It’s well worth checking out. The trade is due in October.
March 5: Justice League Unlimited #1 by Mark Waid and Dan Mora. Star Sapphire saving a dying man with the power of love brought a tear to my eye, The issue also has a very nice use of Black Lightning.
March 6: Justice League Unlimited #2 by Mark Waid and Dan Mora. Seeing the original Challengers of the Unknown back in action was a wonderful surprise. They were my favorite DC team of the 1960s and still are.
March 7: Wife Gets Smart, Makes Husband Happy: Supermarket Comic Strip Ads of World War II. Nat Gertler covers comics history no one else covers in fun and informative collections. My pal Nat is a comics treasure.
March 8: Redcoat #7 by Geoff Johns and Bryan Hitch. An emotional, often heartrending done-in-one tale of the price that immortality takes from Simon Pure. This deserves an Eisner Awards nomination for best single issue.
March 9: Saturday Night Live. Lady Gaga and Bowen Yang. We need a queer rom-com starring these two. They had amazing chemistry in their SNL sketches. Hey, Hallmark, the ball is in your court. Time to expand your viewership.
March 10: Your Friendly Neighborhood Spider-Man wasn’t the show I expected. Its ten-episode first season featured a whole lot of changes to the original canon. Even so, it definitely held my interest and I look forward to a second season.
March 11: Hyde Street by Geoff Johns and Ivan Reis. Most of the Ghost Machine titles are among my favorites. This unnerving book with continuing characters reveals the evil found in every city and how it meets its reckoning on this street.
March 12: Merry Little Batman. The most bizarre Batman animated feature ever. Young Daimien wants to be a Batman just like his protective dad. The movie is violent at times and runs a tad too long, but it remains a delightful film.
March 13: Transphoria Vol. 1. From Lifeline Comics, this is a 90 page graphic anthology about Trans and Non Binary experiences of gender euphoria across a wide range of genres. It’s wonderfully affirming and entertaining. Highly recommended. 3-13-25.
March 14: RetroFan #37. Ed Catto follows the impossible to follow Michael Eury as editor and does a fine job. Great articles on the Jetsons, Saturday Morning Rockers, Glamorous Ladies of Wrestling and more. My favorite magazine.
March 15: Secrets of the Unknown...Alan Class by Nick Neocleous has a great interview with the man who brought American comics to the U.K. from 1959 to 1989. There are lots of cool covers and fun facts. A long overdue book.
March 16: Created and drawn by Rob Davis, The Spirit of Route 66 #1 is a great start to the series. A man inherits a ‘66 T-bird and journeys on the famous highway. There’s something unusual about the car and therein lies the fun. Recommended.
March 17: Reuben fried rice. This is a St. Patrick’s Day special at Medina’s House of Hunan, my favorite restaurant. I don’t know how long it will be available, but you should 100% rush to enjoy this delicious stuff.
March 18: From Adventures into the Unknown #126 (August 1961), “Heavenly Heavyweight” by Richard Hughes and Ogden Whitney is one of those genuinely heartwarming tales that often appeared in ACG titles. Hughes knew how to tug at my heartstrings.
March 19: Roxy. A classic British romance comics weekly now has a mostly new anthology featuring modern talents updating classic strips like The Getaway Girls, 80 pages of love and adventure. More please.
March 20: Captain America: Brave New World. It’s a terrific film that fit nicely into its just under two-hour run time. I love new characters Joaquin Torres and Ruth Bat-Seraph and hope to see more of them in the MCU. More to come.
March 21: Batman/Superman: World’s Finest #34 by Mark Waid and Fran Galan. I’ve enjoyed this title since it was launched, but this issue’s team-up of Batgirl, Jimmy Olsen and the Super-Pets just plain tickled me. What a fun story!
March 22: Lucky Loser: Adventures in Tennis & Comedy by Michael Kosta. A fascinating story of Kosta’s journey from tennis pro to comedian. My only quibble is that it ends his first appearance on The Tonight Show. Too soon. I need a second book.
March 23: The Residence. Darkly humorous series about murder in the White House. Great performances by Uzo Aduba as world’s greatest detective Cordelia Cupp and Randall Park as an FBI agent. Two episodes in, Barb and I are hooked.
March 24: Mark Evanier’s always-wondrous News from Me blog has been providing daily links to compact fact checks on the lies and misinformation vomited out on the public by Trump, Musk and other Nazis. It’s indispensable reading.
March 25: Metamorpho the Element Man #1. Wow! It’s as if writer Al Ewing and artist Steve Leiber were channeling Bob Haney and Ramona Fradon for this thoroughly delightful issue. I’ll request the trade from my library in September.
March 26: Boston mayor Michelle Wu is exactly the kind of leader our country needs more of. Her life and her policies celebrate the diversity, kindness and progressive thinking that actually make America great.
March 27: Baseball! The Cleveland Guardians won their opening day game over the Kansas City Royals 7-4, scoring three runs in the 10th inning. The Cleveland Cavaliers also won a nail biter of a basketball game over the San Antonio Spurs.
March 28: Lost in Taiwan by Mark Crilley is a beautiful graphic novel about an aimless young man who finds new experiences, good friends and himself in an amazing country. Published in 2023, it belongs on every comics fan’s reading list.
March 29: The Pitt. Streaming on Max and starring Noah Wyle, this medical drama is 24 in the ER, but with a larger cast and more story opportunities. Barb and I watched the first episode and we’re hooked. Highly recommended.
March 30: Cleveland Sex & Intimacy Counseling. In 2023, when I was seeking answers to the fundamental question of me, a trans friend recommended CS&IC. My therapist guided me on my journey to Jenny. My life wouldn’t be as happy as it is today without that continuing guidance.
March 31: MetroHealth. I am blessed to have this system for my primary and gender-affirming care. Excellent doctors and staff. Great facilities. No other system in the area makes me feel more seen and more respected. It’s the best!
BEST COMIC BOOK/GRAPHIC NOVEL: Lost in Taiwan by Mark Crilley
BEST BOOK: Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non binary People and Their Families.
BEST MOVIE OR TV SHOW: The Pitt
BEST PERSON: Boston mayor Michelle Wu
BEST OTHER THING: Cleveland Sex & Intimacy Counseling
My Vast Accumulation of Stuff garage sales will launch on Friday and Saturday, May 2 and 3, 9 am to noon at 840 Damon Drive in Medina, Ohio. The summer’s nigh-weekly sales will be bigger and better than ever. Hundreds of hardcovers and trade paperbacks at 30% of cover prices or more. Boxes of comic books with some as low as a buck each. Godzilla stuff. Funko figures. Manga volumes at a dollar each. I’m posting daily previews on my Facebook page and will have more information for you here as we draw closer to the start of the sales.
Thanks for visiting. We’ll be back soon with more stuff.
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